Michael R. Lutek,Jr. - Online Memorial Website

PRECIOUS MICHAEL, HOPE YOU HAD A GOOD DAY AND ALL YOUR LOVED ONES HAD LOTS OF SWEET MEMORIES OF YOU TO WARMLY FILL THERE HEARTS. SENDING LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU ALL. GOD BLESS

                

       

To the parents of such a handsome Angel, please accept my most sincere condolences in the loss of such a vital part of your life.  Grief is such an unbelievable thing; no two people embrace it in the same way; no one can actually say when that magical day will come when we return to some sense of normalcy. It just takes time and a willingness to accept the plan the God had for our sons long before they were ever born.

Our son, Andrew, was involved in an auto accident on July 12th, 2005.  He was declared brain dead secondary to blunt force trauma to his head on July 16th, 2005.

I will encourage you to continue creating the website that you have made as a tribute to Michael.  You will meet so many wonderful people; it has been truly therapeutic for me.

God Bless each of you and hold you during this emotional roller coaster; one day...you'll see your son again.  For now, we have to live with memories and never let them die.

Please visit Andrew's site if you feel that you can. It means so much to me to read entries and realize that someone care enough to light a candle for our son.

Debi Collins

http://www.andrew-collins.last-memories.com

It is difficult to understand why people have to endure such pain as the loss of a child. I have great admiration for the Lutek family because they are good people. They endure suffering that I cannot even comprehend. I will be praying for this family as they  hurt all at the same time. I wish that you could be with them and   and kiss your Mom Michael, your life was important. The joy you brought to your family is sacred and will live on forever in their hearts. You would be proud of them. They work hard to take care of each other especially your mom. She is an amazing woman. I am inspired by her dedication to your memory and her eternal love for you. Your dad is just as generous as ever.  Brittney and Tyler are getting so big. They miss you and want everything the way it was when you were here. I know you hear their prayers and are looking out for them. You are their angel forever

 

I am so very sorry for your loss... your Michael sounds so missed and loved. His photos are wonderful... my deep sympathies to you and your family.  warm regards - Sharon

 

 

They say that from the moment of birth your life is already determined. That everything is planned. Who you will meet, what you will be, who you will love. They say you choose who you want to be your parents, your family, your friends even before you actually meet them here on earth. They say that the purpose of our lives is to become the best possible person we can be. That we go through life learning from mistakes we make so as to become stronger and wiser, all the while perfecting who we are so that when we return to our Lord we are that much more like him. They say that everything happens for a reason and that the people we meet as we go through life were chosen for us. That everyone we meet will affect us in some way, leave an impression in our minds,maybe our hearts and sometimes even our souls. Maybe it's one thing that person said to you that you don't forget that whenever you hear it reminds you of that person or a song they loved that whenever it plays brings back memories of a time from the past and you feel you heart ache, but then the ache turns to burn and the burn becomes a glowing warmth and you picture this persons face and something funny they used to say or do and you feel a smile coming on. Throughout life you will meet many people. Some will leave an impression, whether big or small, and you will remember them and they will affect your life in some way. They say that there are no coincidences that everything happens for a reason. That everyone in our lives is there for a purpose. We don't always know why at that time, but in looking back we realize that without knowing them our lives would somehow have been different. We wouldn't be who we are today or where we are right now. Most of us are given a lifetime to realize this and to perfect ourselves but you didn't need it. You had a wisdom about you that some people "never get". In nineteen years you accomplished what takes some people an eternity. You "got it", you cherished your family, your friends the ones you loved. You met people once and made them feel at ease, you touched everyone you met in some way, and therefore will never be forgotten. The people you chose to be a part of your life are better people because of it. We were lucky to have had the time we had with you and now your looking down from above watching over us. You are all around us. When you first left us all we could say was why? Why Michael? We still don't understand, but maybe we're not supposed to. Most of the people you knew will go the rest of their lives asking, why? Not just why did you have to leave us, but why to all of lives questions. You weren't the type to ask, why? Unfortunately, few of us will ever "get it." But most of us will be given a long time to find the answers to life's questions. You were special. You didn't need it, you already knew what was important. In just ninteen short years God decided you were perfect enough to come back home to him. Love, Erin

Your family forever reminds in my thoughts an prayers. God Bless

Michael I alway's think about you.

Try to be near your lovely Mum Michael.

She need's you to be near her Michael, Try to show her you are there right beside her.

I think then that would help her to ease her pain Michael.

So do try to be right by her side To-day and alway's, You sweet Angel  Michael.

Dawn Michael is watching over you alway's, He will never forget you Dawn.

How could he forget a loving, And caring Mother like you Dawn.

Michael GOOD NIGHT AND GOD BLESS YOU NOW AND ALWAY'S.

Love &  Hug's To You Alway's Dawn.

From your Friend Joan And Family.xxxxxxxxxxx.

Michael you are so missed and loved everyday. My heart is forever broke, You were such a special person  and I find myself thinking too hard and I have  to stop before I drive myself crazy. It's so hard to go on knowing I will not see you handsome face coming  thru that door ever again I was in your room the other day dusting as I am typing to you right now I feel the tightness in my stomach just brewing. Your dad is having such a hard time right now. You know how he is , he won't talk about it and its makes me so afraid for him,Please stay close to him and help him to cope with your loss. I want him to go to therapy but of course he won't....

Life has forever changed for all of us Please help us...we so need you.Hugs to you my angel love you forever Mom